Comments on: Unsung Lullabies: Chapter 6 and 7 http://nycphoenix.wordpress.com/2008/03/10/unsung-lullabies-chapter-6-and-7/ Rising with God's help and a lot of love from the ashes of infertility. Thu, 24 Dec 2009 21:26:44 +0000 http://wordpress.com/ hourly 1 By: Pigeon http://nycphoenix.wordpress.com/2008/03/10/unsung-lullabies-chapter-6-and-7/#comment-5973 Pigeon Tue, 11 Mar 2008 20:43:23 +0000 http://nycphoenix.wordpress.com/?p=614#comment-5973 That was a good post. I don't have much to contribute - just that, yeah, lots of suck. It seems like a good exercise to be working through this book. I hope it's helpful for you in your healing process. That was a good post. I don’t have much to contribute – just that, yeah, lots of suck. It seems like a good exercise to be working through this book. I hope it’s helpful for you in your healing process.

]]> By: Lo http://nycphoenix.wordpress.com/2008/03/10/unsung-lullabies-chapter-6-and-7/#comment-5972 Lo Tue, 11 Mar 2008 17:10:47 +0000 http://nycphoenix.wordpress.com/?p=614#comment-5972 Another very thoughtful post. Monkey balls. It just all comes down to monkey balls. Another very thoughtful post.

Monkey balls. It just all comes down to monkey balls.

]]> By: Rebecca (puppymom) http://nycphoenix.wordpress.com/2008/03/10/unsung-lullabies-chapter-6-and-7/#comment-5971 Rebecca (puppymom) Tue, 11 Mar 2008 04:12:26 +0000 http://nycphoenix.wordpress.com/?p=614#comment-5971 Maybe i need to read this book... But I am struck by how similar you and Mikey are to myself and my wife (i am more that talker/processer/12 stepper like you and she is much more quiet and a caretaker). This has been the subject of some very difficult but productive couples' therapy that we have been doing lately (a necessity because we ARE now parents so breaking up isn't really a great option and we want to be good parents etc). In any case I so relate to everything you wrote here and i have related to so much of the struggle and pain you've shared. i hope you and Mikey CAN find ways to turn toward each other and reconnect. Rebecca Maybe i need to read this book…

But I am struck by how similar you and Mikey are to myself and my wife (i am more that talker/processer/12 stepper like you and she is much more quiet and a caretaker). This has been the subject of some very difficult but productive couples’ therapy that we have been doing lately (a necessity because we ARE now parents so breaking up isn’t really a great option and we want to be good parents etc).

In any case I so relate to everything you wrote here and i have related to so much of the struggle and pain you’ve shared.

i hope you and Mikey CAN find ways to turn toward each other and reconnect.

Rebecca

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