Comments on: Hindsight http://nycphoenix.wordpress.com/2006/09/24/hindsight/ Rising with God's help and a lot of love from the ashes of infertility. Wed, 11 Nov 2009 05:40:57 +0000 http://wordpress.com/ hourly 1 By: charlotte http://nycphoenix.wordpress.com/2006/09/24/hindsight/#comment-770 charlotte Mon, 25 Sep 2006 22:17:05 +0000 http://nycphoenix.wordpress.com/2006/09/24/hindsight/#comment-770 Sounds like you are handling this REALLY WELL. I did not understand how mentally unstable she is. <br/><br/>Is there any chance she wants you to take care of her during her pregnancy so she can keep the baby? Or is the prospect of an infant really too much for her to handle? <br/><br/>It sounds like you are not giving into her manipulations, epecially when you tell her to terminate if she can't handle it. <br/><br/>You are being honest and straight forward with her, while taking care of yourselves. What more can you do? Sounds like you are handling this REALLY WELL. I did not understand how mentally unstable she is.

Is there any chance she wants you to take care of her during her pregnancy so she can keep the baby? Or is the prospect of an infant really too much for her to handle?

It sounds like you are not giving into her manipulations, epecially when you tell her to terminate if she can’t handle it.

You are being honest and straight forward with her, while taking care of yourselves. What more can you do?

]]> By: Estelle http://nycphoenix.wordpress.com/2006/09/24/hindsight/#comment-769 Estelle Mon, 25 Sep 2006 16:44:23 +0000 http://nycphoenix.wordpress.com/2006/09/24/hindsight/#comment-769 Wow. I missed a lot. Congratulations! Even though it's not a definite yet, it's still good news. <br/>I agree with Hope that she would be acting like this regardless. It's NOT your fault. Wow. I missed a lot. Congratulations! Even though it’s not a definite yet, it’s still good news.
I agree with Hope that she would be acting like this regardless. It’s NOT your fault.

]]> By: hope http://nycphoenix.wordpress.com/2006/09/24/hindsight/#comment-768 hope Mon, 25 Sep 2006 14:15:16 +0000 http://nycphoenix.wordpress.com/2006/09/24/hindsight/#comment-768 The way she behaves has nothing to do with you. Don't let yourself get pulled down in that way. If she continued this pregnancy without you taking the baby she would be acting the same way -- possibly worse because she would be worried about what to do as a mother of two at the end. The way she behaves has nothing to do with you. Don’t let yourself get pulled down in that way. If she continued this pregnancy without you taking the baby she would be acting the same way — possibly worse because she would be worried about what to do as a mother of two at the end.

]]> By: Blondie http://nycphoenix.wordpress.com/2006/09/24/hindsight/#comment-767 Blondie Mon, 25 Sep 2006 01:08:48 +0000 http://nycphoenix.wordpress.com/2006/09/24/hindsight/#comment-767 Sophia, I'll tell you something you've told me in the past. Let go, and let God. You know it. Yes, the next few months are going to be trying. But that is temporary. You can do it. Sophia, I’ll tell you something you’ve told me in the past. Let go, and let God. You know it. Yes, the next few months are going to be trying. But that is temporary. You can do it.

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